Update

Although there has not been one single event happening recently, there have been several smaller ones over the past few days that probably need blogging: my life has, after all, not come to an absolute halt. But all of last week was pretty quiet as the boyf was going away so it was ‘his’ week. Now I have the place to myself until the 10th of May, and intend to take advantage of it.

Nathaniel

The first thing that needs mentioning is Nathaniel: a boi of some history. I had first been in touch with Nathaniel about two years ago and arranged a meet for a vanilla session. Well, I got hopelessly lost and it never happened. He is, in point of fact, the only person I arranged to meet on Gaydar and never did. Despite this we have stayed in touch and recently found out that I was ‘into’ all of this. Turns out that he was interested although inexperienced, so this time we arranged another meet and this time I did not get lost. We had a fun time: an initial session on Saturday afternoon to go through the basic presents and etiquette before an evening trip to The Hoist.

I have to say that it was an odd evening there. Whilst Nathaniel was changing I asked the doorman and he said there were over 220 guys in there: this was at 11pm. And it was busy inside, although the crowd was very different from a usual Saturday night: after all it was Easter weekend. Despite being an ‘Oi Oi’ night there were precious few skins and I recognised about half a dozen people, knew about one. Nathaniel actually ran in to someone he knew who said that he ‘looked the part’ which did wonders for his self-confidence as a boi. I spent the night at his place, which was closer, and I am looking forward to a somewhat harder session in the near future.

Nathaniel should also be along at SM Gays next week, but as he is going to be bringing along some ‘curious’ mates I have said that coming in civvies would be best: it would make his mates more comfortable.

Another coffee meet

Then later on it was a meet for coffee with another prospective boi. In an hour long chat as usual it managed to break the ice (innocuous talk about trains) and then onto the more substantive stuff. I have to say that after this meet I am in two minds about things. There was a lack of chemistry, certainly on my side of the house, but it is sometimes hard to tell in a non-sexual environment. I am certainly happy to see where it goes and maybe this boi comes alive with his clothes off and a collar on: some are like that. So we have a tentative date set for the Monday…

Andre’s session

So Tuesday was Andre’s last session before his holiday. Unhappy that he had missed out on Saturday night we had a long two and a half hours of constructive sleaze, introducing new elements we had discussed and pushing older ones further. So with a combination of yellow, toys, bondage, bootlicking and CP he got a more comprehensive session than he had been subjected too before. I have to say that I could not be happier with how he is developing, his desire to experiment and his intelligent approach. Also his appearance at the last SM Gays has turned a few heads, which built up his ego a bit: this session allowed me to put that into perspective, shall we say…

Odds and sods

There are a few other straws in the wind. Notably the Master I mentioned in the Alpha’s Night Out entry has recognised himself and decided to extract his revenge on Gaydar by pvt-ing lads and ‘warning’ them about me: although on what grounds I am not clear. Equally he, and a few of his more gullible patsies, seem keen to have me banned from the site, again, on what grounds I am at a loss to say. I will keep my eye on this with wry amusement. Meanwhile I should be meeting another boi who I have met a few times before in a non-leather context early next week. Watch this space.

M