Busted

I was going to put up a post today about pain and punishment, but last night something quite rare happened. I managed to stick it to one of the timewasters.

This character on Gaydar goes by the name of gayjonnylondon and I had arranged to meet him one afternoon in the city centre. This is a journey of about an hour for me all told. I had his number so I sent him some texts on the way there, no response. I got to Comptons (where I usually meet bois for drinks) and waited for half an hour, no show. Got back, message on Gaydar; no response. Not entirely typical, but behaviour like this really damages the really genuine guys looking for meets.

But last night, with a chum online, we flushed him out. He came into the Master&slave room. My mate flushed him out, and then I stepped in…he was totally befuddled. He was already chatting to my mate; he had no idea who he was so he could not ignore me without looking like a complete idiot. So he was baffled as to who my mate was and admitted to standing me up. Did not apologise for this but he was, as another guy mentioned in the room, ‘busted’.

It is, admittedly, a flaw in my character that I bear grudges, something I possibly inherited from my grandfather. So it may sound a little petty that I indulged in this. But there is a serious side. There are guys out there who want to meet on a genuine basis, and the more timewasters there are out there the more they damage their prospects.

Now all I have to do is the same to pussyguy1979…

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